{"id":4917,"date":"2014-07-30T21:19:56","date_gmt":"2014-07-31T04:19:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stapletonion.com\/?p=4917"},"modified":"2014-07-30T21:19:56","modified_gmt":"2014-07-31T04:19:56","slug":"stapleton-mca-introduces-block-therapy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stapletonion.com\/?p=4917","title":{"rendered":"Stapleton MCA Introduces \u201cBlock Therapy\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t\t\t<![CDATA[<a href=\"https:\/\/stapletonion.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Block-Therapy.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/stapletonion.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Block-Therapy.jpg\" alt=\"Block Therapy\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-4919\" \/><\/a>Stapleton is a tight-knit community, often with even tighter blocks.  Most blocks get together regularly for drinks, dinners, alley parties, and of course, the annual block party.  The kids on the block often become close friends, the wives get together for <a href=\"https:\/\/stapletonion.com\/posts\/drunk-bunco-group-confident-they-can-solve-stapleton%E2%80%99s-problems\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Bunco<\/a>, and the men get together to play golf or poker.  You may even say that most blocks are like a family.  And like most families, blocks have occasional problems and issues they need to work through.\n<!--more-->\n\u201cSometimes, they\u2019ll be little spats about different things,\u201d says Westerly Creek block captain Kaylynn Mason.   \u201cUsually, it starts with something small, but if it festers, people start gossiping and picking sides over things such as not returning a lawn mower right away, or whose kid is being mean to another kid.  If you are outside the issue, you really can\u2019t get involved, but it can really hurt the dynamic of your block.\u201d\nIn an effort to keep blocks working together and avoiding awkward confrontations, the Stapleton MCA began its \u2018Block Therapy\u2019 program in mid-July.  \u201cWe are working with local hospitals and family therapist residents who are looking to become \u2018doctors,\u2019\u201d said MCA President Liza Kampstra.  \u201cThey work with blocks as if they are families, and talk through issues they have.\u201d\nCU Family Therapist \u2018Dr.\u2019 McAllister says that providing a \u2018safe zone\u2019 for people to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=dS7-jcsB_WQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">air their grievances<\/a> allows for faster block healing.  \u201cWe are trying to expedite healing by getting problems out in the open,\u201d says McAllister.  \u201cAt first, people may be reluctant, but eventually, things come out, and the quicker that happens, the more quickly the healing can begin.\u201d  McAllister says that many problems and issues can be talked through including:\n\n\n<ul>\n\t\n\n<li>Neighbors who invite themselves over too often\n<\/li>\n\n\n\t\n\n<li>Kid(s) being mean to another kid on the block\n<\/li>\n\n\n\t\n\n<li>Not keeping a clean yard\/garage\n<\/li>\n\n\n\t\n\n<li>Giving other people\u2019s kids candy without parental permission\n<\/li>\n\n\n\t\n\n<li>New neighbors who just moved in struggle to be as great as old owners\n<\/li>\n\n\n\t\n\n<li>Couple going through divorce trying to force rest of block to take sides\n<\/li>\n\n\n\t\n\n<li>Neighbor uses other neighbor to fix everything at their house\n<\/li>\n\n<\/ul>\n\n\nMason says that the therapy has definitely helped her block.  \u201cAt first it is pretty uncomfortable,\u201d says Mason.  \u201cThere is some yelling, and some tears, but the facilitators are pretty good, and are able to get things under control pretty quickly.  I would say most of our block goes to our monthly meeting, and we get things out there, and work through it.  Any hard feelings are talked about openly, and problems are solved.  It has been extremely beneficial for our block.\u201d\nMcAllister warns that not all block therapy sessions will be success stories.  \u201cIf a block isn\u2019t as close as they think they are, things will deteriorate rapidly,\u201d says McAllister.  \u201cSome people will decide to come just to be mean spirited about things, and not have good intentions. But, for those with good intentions, the sessions will be very successful.\u201d  Kampstra says that for more information, block captains should contact the <a href=\"https:\/\/stapletonion.com\/posts\/sun-mca-concerned-about-border-security-after-through-street-completed\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Stapleton MCA<\/a> and the MCA will find a resident therapist for your block.  The MCA will also allow blocks access to the community room, or an area at a Stapleton <a href=\"https:\/\/stapletonion.com\/posts\/pocket-park-rules-simplified\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">pocket park<\/a>.\n]]>\t\t<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t\t\t<![CDATA[]]>\t\t<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_coblocks_attr":"","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[147],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-4917","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-issue-85","7":"entry"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stapletonion.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4917","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stapletonion.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stapletonion.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stapletonion.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stapletonion.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4917"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/stapletonion.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4917\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stapletonion.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4917"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stapletonion.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4917"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stapletonion.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4917"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}